i don't even know why he has to be "taken care of"
he can walk
he can talk
he can take care of himself
the neutered one says that if he doesn't bring him out... he
won't go out or get his own makan
i don't remember my grandfather (who is definitely way older)
being so "useless" when he could walk.
if he doesn't go out or get his own makan when he still got hands,
legs and isn't senile or demented, he can bloody well starve..
i wager the guy will kena wait on the FiL hand and foot as well
as his wife..